Confrontation isn't the enemy. Your concession to the commands of others to avoid argument or debate is.
Part of being that high-value force of nature demands that you have the integrity, honesty, and courage to put forth what's right.
1) Speak up when your boundaries are crossed.
Get comfortable saying no. The more you allow your boundaries to be walked all other, the more the other person will expect to do that whenever they want. If you genuinely respect yourself, then stand up for what matters to you. Do not sit passively and allow yourself to be walked into the ground.
2) Playfully challenge those around you.
Keep those around you on their toes by playfully challenging them. A gentle challenge is a great honest signal of authority. It also supports those around you to raise their game. That way, no one becomes complacent, and everyone rises. This is why in strong masculine circles, the discourse is considered harsh. The reality is we all hold each other to account and rise to the challenge collectively as men.
3) Be honest, even if it's not well received.
Allowing people to drive off a cliff, even if telling them means they get angry at you, is a form of cowardice. Do not fear their initial outburst of anger when you reveal the truth or a challenging perspective. Instead, welcome it as strength, courage, and honesty. Along with your own integrity, how the pieces fall after the event become the deciding factor as to if they are worth your attention.
Confrontation makes you stronger, enhances your adaptive confidence in social situations, and spikes attraction because it proves that you're not scared to say what's true. Standing up for yourself, playfully challenging those around you, and being honest is vital even if it's not well received. You are worthy of respect. It's time to stand up and be who you were born to be. Embrace the fear and rise as the king of your life.
Being able to disagree or confront your woman can seem almost impossible for some nice guys. If initially, the relationship was a lot of fun, it could seem tempting to hold onto her by avoiding confrontation.
High-value men are never scared.
The idea that you have to submit to another's argument to "keep the peace" stems from a weakened mindset.
Within you is all the strength needed to break the chains of society's conditioning and take your throne as the high-value man who's in charge of his destiny.
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