If you're currently feeling like a failure or worthless for whatever loss you've gone through.
The rejections you've endured.
Or pain you've absorbed.
Understand that it's ok to fail, as long as you keep trying.
I know this may sound cliche and that you may have gone through so many failures that you feel overwhelmed, discouraged and hopeless.
But understand that it's not your fault.
It's the advice, tips and lessons you've been given either by your parents, coaches or life itself.
You know, the difference between a man and a boy is the lessons they've learned.
And if you've gathered only the outdated ones, the broad "fit all" ones and simply the incorrect ones, guess what?
You'll keep failing.
Because no one will teach you any better.
You will either have to learn through trial and error.
Or you will have to find someone more experienced and convince him to teach you his secrets.
I know neither of those may sound compelling, but there's also a third option…
It's much quicker, easier and more convenient.
In fact, if you put your mind really into it, you could learn the ins and outs of it…
In. Less. Than. An. Hour.
Without even getting out of your bed!
Now, would you rather go out, search for a stranger and try to convince him to teach you?
Or would you "do it yourself" and go through hundreds of rejections and failures before you break?
Or would you be smart about it and take the shortcut, so you can start talking with girls as soon as possible?
Let me just mention that whoever said hard work is necessary for success, definitely doesn't know how to live.
But anyway, if you want to get the shortcut and be able to talk to girls as soon as possible, without even getting out of your bed
Or go back to your self-pity.