Since everybody is talking about Will Smith and his recent decision of smacking Chris Rock, for insulting his wife…
I had no chance but to enter the bubble of commentary and vomit my opinion out on you.
Regardless of whether it was staged or real, there are a few key lessons you can take from Will’s actions…
And for the sake of this email, we’ll assume it was real…
So what happened, why did Will Smith slap Chris Rock, and what he should’ve done instead?
To start with, it is clear that Will laughed at Chris’s joke until he saw his wife’s unhappy face.
This is when he decided it wasn’t funny anymore and he had to do something, so he reacted based on his wife’s emotion.
Secondly, I question whether Will pulled out on a full punch or was aiming for a powerful slap.
But if that was me and someone just offended my wife, he wound’t be standing on his feet.
And thirdly, this whole situation should’ve never happened in the first place, because Will Smith should’ve left this woman ages ago.
But instead, he was too afraid to lose her and live on his own, he took her back after revealing her affairs and even took the blame for her decision of swerving off and now got into the headlines for slapping a host on his oscar awards.
This just shows you how choosing the wrong woman can make your life so much harder than it should be.
It also shows that choosing the wrong woman and sticking with her, even if you know she’s not worth it will only drag you down, will make other people laugh at you and your weakness will steal your potential for success and growth away and will cause you to lose your dignity and authority.
Hence why you should never be afraid to step back and leave if she’s not the right fit for you.
But here’s the biggest lesson for today…
If you’re in a relationship or a marriage that has a similar vibe and brings you more stress than freedom, you’re with the wrong woman, king.
Even if you’re convinced that she’s the one.
You have to save yourself while you still can and leave that woman for good because if you don’t, you will likely end up just like Will.
So dependant, so reactive and so weak that you will not be able to even defend your “wife” properly.
But how do you know if you’re in a toxic relationship?
How do you distinguish the difference between a woman worth your time and a woman who’s not?
How do set a benchmark and define your perfect woman, without being unrealistic?
How do you attract that perfect woman, talk, date, and sleep with her?
How do you drop her the second you see or hear something you don’t like?
And how do you not date just because you’re lonely or because everybody else in your life is dating?
You do that by becoming fully aware of your sovereignty, reclaiming your power, and becoming fully familiar with yourself, your strengths, weaknesses, and actions required to grow as a man.
Once you do that, no woman will be able to bring your guard down.
No woman will be able to get into your head.
And no woman will be able to take your power away from you, turning you into Beta, just like our friend Will Smith.
So if you’d like to learn how to unleash your unrealized sovereignty and avoid the fate of the weak, needy and timid…
Otherwise, you may lose your opportunity forever and live in the shadows of your wife.
Until next time, young king.