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Flirting to an inexperienced King to be, can be challenging when he's not entirely secure in himself.
This means that unconsciously you end up giving off "needy" vibes via your micro-movements, body language, and other subconscious communication.
The result skews the “value dynamic,” and the woman will usually either see you as unattractive or just a friend.
Most women want to mate across and up the dominance hierarchy. This means that she wants to be with a man who she's excited to see.
Not a guy who's desperate while she has little or zero interest level in you.
This is where the concept of "outcome independence" makes a huge difference.
If you're dependent on the outcome of an interaction, you'll put a ton of pressure on yourself to achieve that outcome, for example, sex.
If you're "outcome-independent," that means you can walk away even if what you want is a possibility or not.
Essentially, you become free from desperation and can fully enjoy the interaction without chasing away the woman.
This dynamic is far more attractive, and at the same time, you respect yourself.
Acting from need or desperation is a form of dishonoring who you are.
You are a King who is essentially a self-contained mirror of the universe. Happiness and completion only ever come from within you, not via the open legs of a girl, who may or may not be that into you.
Don't attach your happiness to the outcome of any interaction.
Instead, seek to enjoy it for what it is now.
Revell within the moment, without being focused on a final act.
Enjoy it without need, and she'll be far more into you than a man who's desperate for validation.
Attraction is a powerful thing as long as your mindset and behavior mirror the greatness that is waiting to be unleashed within you.
As a high-value King, knowing yourself and realizing your true power is pivotal when it comes to dating.
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