A massive mistake many nice guys make is to try and use logic to turn their date on. The old PUA phrase "convey it don't say it" comes to mind. Also, the red pill axiom "lead your woman with logic, but speak to her emotions" is helpful.
Arousal is a visceral emotional response, not something that can be bargained or convinced through logical reasoning. Logic comes after the emotion to back up what a person feels before they take action.
1) Use body language to convey strength, dominance, and confidence.
Your posture and the way you move speak volumes. Upright, strong framed, and taking up space is vital. Maintain relaxed ease and be slow and deliberate with your movement. That inherent grace will frame and saturate, firstly, your own view of yourself. Secondly, how others feel your presence.
2) Emotional transference.
We all take in what the other person is feeling. Tiny micro-movements of your face communicate a lot about how you see yourself and the world. Likewise, our motor-mirror neurons sense how that person feels and then translate that into an emotional, visceral response. This is why you can tell how an excited person feels, plus the reason for getting excited with them. To harness emotional transference, you allow yourself to feel arousal while with your date. You don't have to mention it. All you do is let your imagination go wild while you maintain composure.
3) Eye contact.
Eye contact is huge. If you're holding eye contact while executing the other points mentioned, it'll intensify the emotional atmosphere. A study from the late 80s revealed that if you maintain eye contact for two minutes, this causes the body to produce phenylethylamine, a chemical associated with falling in love. Don't overdo it, though. You don't have to stare her down. Be natural with your eyes, and remember that some girls may be shy around a king like you, so you can mirror and return eye contact as the date goes on.
Key takeaway.
Your body, mindset, vibes, and how comfortable you are making eye contact have the most significant difference in natural arousal. It's not about logical reasoning. That comes later once arousal has started to peak. Know yourself through your body and hold yourself with strength. Use slow, deliberate movements. Relax, and allow yourself to be turned on by your date. Be comfortable looking deeply into her eyes. Finally, don't base your happiness on how she responds. If she's feeling you, then great, though it's not a big deal if she's not. Mindset is 100% critical.
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