If You Want to Date Hotter Women, Let Go of Needing Sex and Focus on Leading the Interaction.
You'll Get Much Better Results
It's a classic trap. You start leveling up, get somewhere, then you manage to attract a hottie. Accidently you end up devolving back into over-enthusiasm, and she either ghosts or gradually loses interest.
Ultimately, this stems from the belief in the "one" fantasy. A high-value man has several options, which means he doesn't have to jump on one particular woman straight away.
It's OK to take your time. You'll spike more attraction, drive up the desire, and get a positive response when you're not acting desperate.
Focus on leadership, though switch it away from pushing for an end result to gentle dominance. That way, you'll drive her wild with the least possible effort. Remember the following...
1) Become outcome-independent.
The less attached to a final result you become, the more you can achieve that result. In dating, this means letting go of needing to fuck. Sure, you may feel it, and that's healthy. Though learn to relax and allow it to be without it driving your actions. The bonus of doing this is through emotional transference: your date will start feeling horny too. When that's coupled with a zero pressure environment, arousal happens far quicker.
2) Keep it light-hearted.
You needn't make it serious or heavy. Instead, focus on enjoying the interaction and spike those strong emotions while having a great time. If you're all tense and trying to make it into something specific, the pressure will put her off, and you won't enjoy the interaction in the first place.
3) Hold back on the enthusiasm.
Just because you seem compatible, she's visually & mentally what you're looking for, doesn't mean you give up the game and become a submissive desperate man driven by need. Keep it rational inside your head, and keep playing the game.
4) Be subtle.
Play with the idea of getting together without being overt or obvious. You can use suggestive language, innuendo, and future projection to achieve this in a very simple way. The point is that as soon as you try to overtly confirm anything, she'll start to feel pressured, and the attraction will dissipate.
5) Don't push. Hold the space instead.
Again, even if she's kinda resembling your dream girl, don't push. You still have to play the game and play it like a gangster. Get comfortable holding the space for her, which basically means relaxing and being comfortable in yourself as you are, without anyone else needing to be a certain way. This will accelerate her desire levels, give her the unconscious permission to relax, and let the arousal flow naturally.
6) Relax & remember; you can always generate new options. This girl isn't your only choice.
You don't have to jump on this girl and try to chain her to you. Even if you don't have other options right now, you'll be able to generate new ones in the future. So don't put all your eggs in one basket just yet. That'll also give your micro-movements an edge of pre-selection and non-neediness, which are potent igniters of competition anxiety in women. Competition anxiety is a state of arousal in girls.
7) Be comfortable in uncertainty.
Uncertainty isn't your enemy. Acting weak to try and get rid of the uncertainty is. This ineffective behavior usually looks like trying to confirm some kind of arrangement, like a relationship, etc. Don't do it. Be that high-value force of nature that has other options and thus isn't affected by uncertainty. Learn to enjoy the rush of possibilities and let go of needing to reach a destination.
Even if she's a 10 and seems interested in you, you can't give up the game straight away. There is no need to try to confirm anything. In fact, just enjoy the uncertainty. You'll drive up more design and get better results by being comfortable and enjoying the interaction. You don't actually want to get to a "final destination" because that "need" drives you to act weak. Remind yourself that if it doesn't work out, you can always generate new options, even if you don't have them right now. Finally, enjoy the date. It's about fun, so have a great time.
Having that abundance mindset, coupled with being able to take it or leave it, even with beautiful women, is a winning formula.
High-value men do this naturally.
It's not something you're born with. It's a skill set you perfect with the proper knowledge.
You can transform your destiny and dominate your dating life. It's well within your powers to do so.
Our uncensored ebooks will help you do that by explaining the universal High-Value Traits that make even average men confident and secure in themselves. You can get access to all of them plus all the new ones we create by signing up for our membership site. Click below to sign up now.