What 'Mental Point of Origin' Means, and How to Use It to Become Irresistible

Alpha Male Mindset 101

So many of us have been conditioned from childhood to put everyone else's needs before our own. This is especially true when it comes to intersexual dynamics. You know that you have detrimental programming running if your first thoughts are focused on the woman's benefit over your own.

The above means that your mental point of origin is femcentric. In plain English, that means you'll always put the woman first. She's the first thought in your mind, and the subsequent behavior that follows comes off as needy and desperate.  

1) Start putting yourself first.

Most healthy women don't want to be the center of your world. Instead, they desire to gravitate around a strong man with purpose. So start considering life from the perspective of what you want, first.

2) Interrupt the pattern and refocus on your needs.

Catch yourself when you fall. Be mindful of your actions and thoughts. Whenever you notice yourself devolving into subservience, stop thinking for a second, then refocus on what you want out of life. Repeat until it becomes an automatic response.

3) Prioritize your time for your purpose & goals.

Your time is the most limited resource you will ever have. Nothing can bring it back. So ensure you spend it wisely and prioritize its use to better your life and pursue your dreams.

4) Consider what you actually want, then don't settle for less.

First, spend time actually deeply considering what you want. Be it relationships, how you want to be treated, and who you want to be. Next, consider your lifestyle, and be detailed. This will enable you to anchor a reference point towards where you want to be. That supports your mental point of origin to spontaneously gravitate to your goals, boundaries, and what you truly want out of life.

5) Give yourself permission to be ruthless when it comes to dating.

Too many men settle for less due to compassion, then get mistreated as a result. Be ruthless, walk away and cut the chain of abuse at the root. If you find yourself struggling to leave a situation that genuinely doesn't suit you out of a sense of sympathy, loyalty, or a habit of putting their needs before yours, then stop, catch yourself, and refocus on what's best for you. It's crucial to keep realigning your mental point of origin. Otherwise, you'll end up trapped in a place you never wanted to be, to begin with.

Key takeaway.

If your thoughts always drift towards the woman first, your gateway to king status is right there. To open that door, you must interrupt the pattern. Refocus your attention, and start putting your needs first. Spend time figuring out what you actually want from life, people, and relationships. Do the work necessary to know yourself and your boundaries. Prioritize and be ruthless with your time, dating life, and purpose. Don't for an instant give up your freedom.

Ironically, putting the woman first all the time makes you less attractive. Being that strong, competent, high-value king means that you have to get your mindset and priorities straight.

You do have it in you.

All the insecurity, limitations, and self-doubt are conditioned belief systems that can be overridden and changed.

It's time to break free of the conditioning and start putting yourself first for a change.

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