Why Sexual Tension Is Fantastic for Flirting, and How to Effectively Create It
You Don't Have To Be Ashamed
Most nice guys or inexperienced kings to be, try to hide sexual tension. As a result, they tend to shy away from revealing any real sense of attraction in an attempt to not be rejected, perceived as creepy, or ousted as a pervert. Unfortunately, the result tends to land them straight in the friendzone with potentially compatible partners.
The good news is that you can totally shift the paradigm and start harnessing sexual tension is a fantastic flirting tool to inspire your dates or potential lovers to feel the chemical rush of attraction.
1) Be comfortable.
Firstly, it's vital to be at peace with your own sexual energies. That doesn't mean that anyone else can see them, though it does mean that you stop trying to push them away or fight within yourself. Instead, allow yourself to feel and relax. Don't internally beat yourself up. Have the perspective that sexual energy is natural, healthy, and just part of life.
Teasing is an excellent way for you to both drop your guards, let go a little and start building sexual attraction. Keep it relaxed, and pepper it in like you were seasoning a meal. It also breaks down the barrier caused by being too nice. A little bit of irresistible playfulness is more trustworthy because you're not trying too hard and dare to be honest without worrying what the other person will think of you. Don't take it too far though, too much spice can ruin the flavor.
3) Take your time.
The less rushed you are, the better. Slowing down in your speech and allowing for gaps between what you say spikes sexual tension. It's also an indicator of higher value as these men are used to being listened to. Rushing communication does the opposite. Trying too hard to say everything creates a sense of anxiety and destroys sexiness. Pause, deepen your voice and don't try so hard.
4) Eye contact.
One of the most powerful ways to deepen a connection is eye contact. Many struggle to even make eye contact. Don't be perturbed if people look away first. Hold firm, deep, and penetrating eye contact. Smile slightly (not too much, it has to be subtle) with the corners of your eyes.
Sexual tension is a natural sign that you're both into each other. Firstly, become comfortable with what you feel inside. Once you've reached a point that you don't give a fuck, then you can start to allow for sexual tension to flourish. Don't try too hard, and be honest and playful. Eye contact is key, along with not rushing and allowing that attraction to build naturally.
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Sexual tension is just one of many great natural ways to attract and sleep with quality compatible females.
It starts with your mindset because if you're still scared of your own sexuality, it'll get communicated to women via your micro-movements.
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