Approaching women or making the first move doesn't mean you're needy. Isolating yourself won't get you laid or strengthen your social skills. If you're not making moves or deliberately holding back, you miss out on the deepening of social confidence that comes with possible rejection.
The difference is the way you approach and your mindset. It's vital to not give a fuck about the outcome and be carefree in the connection.
1) Approach from the front.
Coming from behind will make anyone jump. You don't want the interaction pre-framed in that way. Instead, approach directly and with the visual honesty of being seen before connecting.
2) Do it when you genuinely consider someone attractive.
Never force yourself to approach someone you're not feeling. It'll be harder and weirder for you. You'll find you have to fake it more, and you may end up with someone you don't want. Practice approaching when you feel that pull or sense of anxiety because that's where the most confidence will grow.
3) Have fun.
Enjoy yourself and self-entertain. Self-entertaining means you do things that you enjoy. An example would be making jokes that you find funny. Don't try to express who you're approaching. Instead, focus on the fun aspects of connecting. You want the tone to be enjoyable, and that means you must be enjoying it yourself.
Approaching is a key to unlocking your social & adaptive confidence. Isolating yourself does the opposite. The shift is your focus. If you focus too much on the other person or try to impress them, you'll come off needy. Instead, if you have fun, self-entertain, and connect without a need for any specific result, you'll discover a deeper sense of social confidence. Approach in ways that are direct and obvious. Don't sneak up on people, as it'll set the wrong emotional tone. Finally, do it when you genuinely feel attracted to someone because that's when your confidence grows the most. It doesn't matter if they reject you. It does matter that you can do it when you want. It's not about getting attention. It's 100% about becoming that socially strong king amongst men.
Get yourself out there.
Approaching doesn't have to be complicated. Breaking the pattern of fear and inaction gives you strength even if you get rejected.
The more you approach, the more likely you will connect with a quality woman who treats you well. After a certain amount of approaches, it just becomes a numbers game and a matter of time.
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